Did you know many Christians are going to lose their salvation because of their marriages? Do you know the commandment, "Thou shall not commit adultery"? Marriage is optional and for those who are interested and mature enough to enter into the business. It is not written anywhere in the Bible that every male or female must marry. This book is carefully written to share the experiences of renowned men of God in both the Old and New Testaments who faltered as a result of their marriages. You will also find some definitions of marriage, including the author's. The author suggests some alternatives to marriage, such as secret and open friendships to replace the traditional courtship and ADMs (annual dialogue meetings). Marriage celebrations from paper to diamond and many more are there for you. Many people have benefited from the author, who works with the Lord in counseling. Come, the door is opened as you read this book.